Hosting Friendsgiving in an apartment might sound like a tall order, but with a little planning (and a lot of potluck help), you can create an unforgettable Thanksgiving get-together that your friends will talk about long after the leftovers are gone.
Size Up Your Space
How many people can realistically fit in your apartment? Take stock of your layout and seating options before you start sending invites. If your apartment community has a common area or clubhouse, check with the leasing office to see if you can reserve it for your gathering.
If you need more seating, don’t stress. Mix and match what you have—dining chairs, stools, ottomans, even floor cushions. Layer in throw blankets and pillows to make things feel cozy and intentional. Bonus points for creating a casual floor-seating zone for board games or dessert!
Delegate the Dishes
The best part of Friendsgiving is not having to do everything on your own. Cooking every dish is virtually impossible in an apartment kitchen, and it takes the fun out of the day.
Instead, take charge of the main course, whether it’s turkey, rotisserie chicken, or a plant-based dish. Ask your guests to bring their favorite sides, desserts, or drinks. Not only does this lighten your load, but it also turns dinner into a flavorful mix of everyone’s traditions.
Make sure you don’t forget the extras! Assign someone to bring ice, to-go containers, and a cooler if fridge space is tight.
Transform the Table
You don’t need a formal dining room to set the scene. Start with a festive base like an autumnal table runner and place mats, and cloth napkins, mismatched dishes, and seasonal touches like mini pumpkins and cinnamon sticks can add charm. Candles instantly elevate the vibe, and battery-operated options are great for small spaces where flames aren’t ideal.
If you’re short on table space, get creative! Side tables, countertops, and even an ironing board draped in a tablecloth can double as serving stations.
Aim for Ambiance
Set the tone with cozy lighting—string lights, lamps, or dimmed overhead lights—to create a warm, welcoming glow. Add in some subtle seasonal scents using candles or wax warmers; fall fragrances like cinnamon and vanilla are always crowd-pleasers. Music rounds things out, so queue up a playlist with relaxed tunes that fit the mood. Whether your style leans more rustic, modern, or minimalist, a few thoughtful touches will make your apartment feel inviting and festive.
Wrap Up the Night with Gratitude
Before everyone goes their separate ways (and grabs their leftovers), take a moment to share what you’re thankful for. It doesn’t have to be sappy; just a quick round of appreciation can bring your Friendsgiving full circle.
Hosting in an apartment isn’t about perfection, it’s about connection. With the right mindset (and maybe a folding chair or two) you can throw a Friendsgiving that’s meaningful, fun, and unforgettable.
